Why I hate
travelling:
1. Packing is a nightmare! I went to
Honduras on a short trip in February, and my luggage never arrived to the
destination. I picked it up in Heathrow on the way home. I thought to myself,
maybe I should spare myself of the hassle of packing next
time and just bring a small hand luggage with the most important items.
2. When I travel, I become a spectator to
a greater or lesser extent. I watch new places and people. Having the role of a
spectator for too long, I find tiring. The spectator does not play an active
role and observes other people playing their
roles in life. When I studied 2 semesters in Spain, I didn’t have any responsibilities
besides passing my classes. At the end of my time in Spain, I really started missing
having responsibilities (and commitments!) and having an active, long term, role to play in the lives of my friends, family and projects I’m part of at
home.
3. Small talking with strangers is a
central part of travelling. I sometimes hate it. I get fed up of telling people
my name, my country of origin, what I do, etc., and I start longing for a deep
conversation with a good friend. A conversation with a person, I already share history
with.
Why I love
travelling:
1. I love the simplicity. I can only
wear what I brought in my suitcase. This sometimes means I just wear what I
wore yesterday; it’s relieving to have limited choices. Besides clothes, I only
bring a few other items, which means I spend very little time
on “moving stuff around” (sorting out my room).
2. It’s great to be a spectator for
a while. When I go travelling I can (often) leave my responsibilities at home,
my calendar is empty and I can just live and enjoy life. This opens up a space
inside me where I can start looking at my life with new eyes.
3. Small talking with strangers on journeys
can be rather enriching. Small talks can turn into interesting and meaningful
conversations which gives me insights into lives of people who are very
different from me and their life stories and worldviews challenge my view on myself,
God and the world.