Sunday, January 15, 2012

Leaving home for pleasure vs. leaving out of need


Today I visited an asylum centre north of Copenhagen. Three friends from my church and I invited the people living in the centre to a hall which we had turned into a café with coffee, cookies, board games, music and table tennis. Every time we have been to the asylum centre we have listened to the life stories of people living there. Stories of persecution, war, violence, separation from family members and long journeys without passports. Stories of leaving home out of desperation.

During my university studies I did an exchange program in Madrid and stayed in a flat with five other people. Four of them were from South America and had come to Spain to work and send money back to their families. Money that would cover school fees of their children and hospital bills of family members. The South American flat mates hardly left the apartment, other than when going to work, in order to not have unnecessary expenses for transport, food/drinks, etc. My 5thflat mate was a Danish exchange student like me. Attending cultural events and frequenting restaurants, cafés and bars were everyday activities in our exchange student lives in Madrid. We had basically gone to Spain for the experience and excitement of living in a different country and to enjoy life. The South Americans had left home hoping that economic transfers from Europe would improve the lives of family members back home.

In the movie‘The Motorcycle Diaries’ Che Guevara and his friend Alberto Granado leave their homes in Buenos Aires, Argentina, to go on a road trip through South America on a motorcycle. They are upper class young students and go traveling based on an adventurous urge to see and experience new places. On their journey they meet a communist couple who have fled their town due to persecution for their political views. The contrast is enormous; the two young guys left home because they wished to experience something different from their home. The communist couple had left everything dear to them and would rather have stayed at home.

The travel experiences of people I met today at the asylum centre, my South American flat mates in Madrid and the communist couple in the movie ‘The Motorcycle Diaries’ represent stark contrasts to my own travel experiences. First, the motivation for traveling differs enormously; it is a question of leaving home for pleasure vs. leaving out of need. Second, I leave home with the assurance that I will soon see my family again. Many people around the world leave their homes and do not reunite with their family back home for years or they may never be reunited.

The visit at the asylum centre today reminded me that being able to choose the timing and destination of a journey and the date for home coming and reunification with family members back home is a gift and a privilege. The free choice of staying at home is likewise a major privilege which many people in the world do not have.








Wednesday, January 11, 2012


Parenteser
(poem in Danish)

Befinder mig i en overgang fra et til noget andet
I mit hoved indstiller jeg mig på ændringen
Fremtiden er allerede mentalt blevet en del af mit nuværende liv
Lever jeg i en parentes?

Ser ofte mest fremad
Livet nu bliver en parentes

Parentesen synes dog at kendetegne livet
Overgangene kan ikke være parenteser
Overgangene er blevet mit liv

Jeg forsøger at se på nuet
Parentesen bliver langsomt til brødtekst
Og jeg ved at hver dag
er et skridt videre i det der er mit liv.